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- What is Divorce Identity Coaching
- Don't Let Divorce Define You
- Who Are You and What Do You Need
What Is Divorce Identity?
- divorce identity starts the moment you stop trusting your partner
- divorce identity starts when you shrink yourself to feel safe
- divorce identity starts when you start acting like a victim
- divorce identity starts when you stop listening to and acting on your instincts
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- You redesign how you read and trust your body's intuition.
- You might slide into traumatized victim OR choose grounded warrior.
- Some people colour everything with anger and resentment.
- With support many choose negotiator, intuition, forward-facing strategies.
- You stop trusting yourself first and others later
- You learn to love with out trust AND hope without hope.
- You redesign how you read and trust your body's intuition.
- You might slide into traumatized victim OR choose grounded warrior.
- Some people colour everything with anger and resentment.
- With support many choose negotiator, intuition, forward-facing strategies.
Timeline: between 2-5 years
It's never too early or too late to begin divorce Identity Coaching.
Even years after the divorce, a divorce victim often suffers:
- chronic victim mindset
- unable to stop the inner critic and imposter syndrome swirling in the quiet moments
- stuck and losing ground in their career - loss of credibility
- unresolved health issues
- revolving through unhealthy relationships..
O-Zones welcomes Divorce Identity clients even years after the divorce papers are signed.
Who Are You?
What Do You Need?
What Do You Need?
- Professional: successful, reliable, consistent, business person, struggling to remain strong and present as your life is crumbling.
- Entrepreneur: Creator, Innovator, Driver of Success stretched too thin.
- Sole Financial Support for your family
- Mother/Father: protector, saviour, provider, safety-net
- Daughter/Son: carer for aging parents, decision maker
- Sibling: supportive, complicated relationships
- Friend: You were always the go-to problem solver. Divorce changes those relationships. You feel alone!
What Do You Need?
What Do You Need?
What Do You Need?
- To Take Back Control of your Life
- Set Poweful, Unbreachable Boundaries
- Get the Respect YOU Deserve
- NEUTRALIZE Old Trauma Triggers
- Re-write Self-Belief
- End Personal and Professional Identity Conflict
- Strategize Relationshhip Mangement With Your EX DURING and AFTER the Divorce
- Successfully Negotiate Your BEST Divorce Settlement
- Attract Joy, Success, Allow Real Love To Find YOU
Create the Future YOU Deserve
Ask Yourself:
What Do You Need?
What Do YOU Need Help With
- Is marriage breakdown making you doubt yourself personally AND professionally?
- Is your doubt putting both your divorce outcome, and your career at risk?
- Is your career sliding into danger: are you losing confidence, being overlooked for advancement? Getting stuck in Decision Paralysis
- After work, on the way home, do you notice the shift from in-control business person to VICTIM? WHY?
What Do YOU Need Help With
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What Do YOU Need Help With
- Stop feeling crazy out-of-control
- Mind/Body Trauma Protection
- Professional Credibility.
- Stop Night Terrors
- Stop Decision Paralysis
- Stop Feeling Like a Fraud
- Turn Inner Critic Into Your Best Friend
- Stop Chronic Illness
- Pre-Meeting Role Play
- Debriefs after each meeting, phone call, and negotiation.
- New Resilient Relationships
- Your Origin Story: Discover and Re-Write your original negative stories so now they defuse dangerous decisions.
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Warning: The Dangerous Divorce
Warning: The Dangerous Divorce
Divorce without strategies and skills IS threatening, but it doesn't have to be!
Trauma, Betrayal, Abandonment, Chronic Illness, Uncertainty, Insecurity, The Unknown!
- If divorce rolls you into ball and makes YOU unrecognizable to yourself, make it stop now!
- Victim Mindset and Fraud Syndrome are your greatest threats!
Your Coach offers 'situation by situation' support, always there for YOU in REAL time, holding your hand with proven strategies, logic, best practices, and new life-skills training!
How Does Coaching Work?
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- 1-on-1, private, a phone call or live on Zoom.
- You and your Coach co-create the roadmap and milestones.
- Each session focuses on a current situation and includes skills, tools, and mindset reset, with homework to embed new skllls.
- Detours are expected as your divorce journey changes.
- You are never rushed to the next coaching destination. Each milestone is life changing. Once mastered, you are ready to move on.
Divorce Identity Coaching is designed so you move forward proving you have what it takes to face and win every situation!
Do you need help to stay safe, whole, and sane on this journey?
How Divorce Defines You
Does the Perfect Life Just Re-Start AFTER Divorce?
Your NEW Life starts the moment you choose how you will take back your life one divorce event at a time. This means YOU CHOOSE what your future looks like while you are still in the craziness and uncertainty of your divorce how to win at Life now - NOT after the papers are signed!
It's normal to feel identity-threatened - torn - unrecognizable! At times, you might feel even a little 'crazy'.
But it doesn't have to stay this way!
'Divorce Identity Coaching supports YOU through every stage and phase of your Divorce as you perfect the skills, tools, and systems that transform trauma to strength and old beliefs into resilience.
Benefits of Divorce Identity Coaching
- Proven Support: 20 years coaching thorugh every kind of life event. Your Coach isn't shocked, judgmental, guilting, gossipy, or threatening.
- Consistency: Your coach learns your patterns, needs, teaches accesses the tools and all skills you need for each situation you bring the the conversation.
- Trusted Coach: Your Coach is unbiased, non-judgemental and truthful. Can your Friends be uninvested, and unbiased, non-judgmental and truthful?
- Vulnerabilty and Stability: O-Zones guarantees consistency, stability and a safe-place to be vulnerable when you need to space to regroup, when your spouse or their lawyer threatens.
- Divorce Trauma Recovery: Personalized Coaching shortens your transition from Traumatized and Victimized to Victor mindset!
Imagine: Week by Week Conversations that give you everything you need to gently shed years of trauma triggering old beliefs! Start fresh each week.
Imagine: Learning to FILTER, BLOCK, RETURN without CONFRONTATION, all negative, damaging, and controlling behaviours from Others.
Imagine: Rebuilding your life, so you are emotionally strong, spiritually empowered, and have EVERY TOOL you need to stay that way.
How many divorced women do you know who are living in bitterness, locked into distrust, hatred, resentment, fear, illness and revolving bad relationships OR in fear of love!
Victim in Hiding
Are you a 'Vicitim in Hiding' who is being 'covertly victimized' by your spouse/partner, their lawyers, and the legal system?
Could 3 FREE Phone Calls Solve ONE of YOUR Problems?
3 Private 30-Minute "ALL ABOUT YOU" Conversations
Solve ONE Real Divorce or Divorce-Related Career Problem!
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