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'Perspectives'  support YOU where, when, and how YOU need support, so YOU become your own Warrior Woman!

Divorce IS life threatening but it doesn't have to be! 

Trauma, Betrayal, Abandonment, Uncertainty, Insecurity, The Unknown!  

Divorce makes YOU unrecognizable to Yourself!  AND you may need help IF you are to stary safe, whole, and sane on this journey! 

Perspectives Teaches YOU To:

 Take Back Control of your Life

Strategize Relationshhip Mangement With Your EX

Successfully Negotiate Your BEST Divorce Settlement 

 NEUTRALIZE Old Trauma Triggers,

Re-write Your Self-Belief, Set Poweful Boundaries

End Personal and Professional Identity Conflicts

Attract Joy, Success, Allow Real Love To Find YOU  

Create the Future YOU Love and Deserve

You may feel identity-threatened - torn - unrecognizable!  At times, you might feel even a little 'crazy'.   

'Perspectives' offers 'situation by situation' support, always there for YOU in REAL time, holding your hand with proven strategies, logic, best practices, and new life-skills training!

ARE YOU READY to Re-Discover 

your Inner Warrior Woman 

taking back your life from DAY 1 with ease and joy?     

DO THIS FIRST: 

STEP 1:  BOOK YOUR  No-Charge, Indepth, Next Steps DIVORCE Life-Blueprint Assessment, followed by your Private Zoom Conversation.   Complete the last magical step when you receive your written NEXT STEPS Life Blueprint designed to get to where you need to be to make successful, supported, change. 

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1. All DETAILS are customizable. Your coach/mentor will remain with you until your Journey is complete to your satisfaction.  (Outside scheduled sessions, your Coach is available when you need help via text, email, even by phone in emergencies.)
2. Divorce takes time!  Repairing divorce damage takes as much time, as it takes!  Each client is different.  AND each journey is customized to client need.  
3. The average Divorce Identity, Life-Re-Activating Journey starts with a minimum 12 month commitment  
4. 12 months sees your through many levels of divorce stress, negotiation, rebuilding, and refining your beliefs about your self. and your successful, loving, joyful, future. 
5. You can end your coaching journey at anytime! 

Best results require time for your belief systems to re-write themsleves with proof, excitement, success and joy in taking back control one battle and one win, at a time. 

Perspectives Divorce Identity Caching is more than counselling, therapy, or psychiatry!  Perspectives has the process, the practice and the years of success, guiding women warriors to their destiny for a full, loving, successful, loved life AFTER Divorce! 

Each Session is a surprise as it reveals exactly the right path to follow, the right skills to treach in the moment they are neeaded, and the consistency of meeting your needs as they arise.     

If your goal is to negotiate a fair settlement, and to design a safe agreement where your legal protection is included foundational, including compassionate and responsible child support and co-parenting guidelnes agreed upon and loving life and yourself is in place. . 

WHAT CHANGES

• You redefine and PROVE your greatest Strengths and Values,
• You edit and create new Inner Talk, Self-Belief, and Life-Belief-Systems.
• You build powerful new Boundaries for Self-Respect and Respect from Others.   Your criterea for respect will change.  
• You learn unshakeable Grounding and Energetic Protection from other's control, guilt, power, illness, need, etc. 
• You become the Warrior Woman you can TRUST to Protect YOU and your Family.  

Expect to establish the personality skills, mindset shifts, and consistent up-levelling of your ability to deal with each NEW threat as the divorce ramps up to the final negotiations and agreements. 

• You are a Professional with a well-defined grasp of your strengths, abilities, talents, and goals.  You know how to be successful.  
• At this moment, you need a safety-net you can trust. 

QUESTIONS To ASK YOURSELF 

• Identity Conflict:  Is your marriage breakdown causing confict between your personal life view - your 'hurting' marriage identity, and your successful professional personality?  

Your weaker side is winning putting both your divorce outcome, and your career at risk?  

• Personal Relationships:  Is your your professional identity making fewer successful choices, while how you feel about yourself, as victimized by your marriage drops deeper into victim and insecurity?  

You've proven that In your Career, you are confident, empowered, respected, successful!  You OWN it!  

BUT

The moment you get home, you become a different person. The Victim!  

How Many Of These Hats Do YOU Wear?   

• Professional:   successful, reliable, consistent, business woman, entrepreneur, struggling to remain strong and present while everything feels as if it is crumbling. 
• Entrepreneur: Creator, Innovator, Driver of Success 
• Earner:  Sole Financial Support for your family
• Mother: protector,  saviour,  provider, safety-net, reliable, stable when everythhing is changing!   
• Daughter:  carer for aging parents, stable, decsion maker, care-giving.
• Sibling: interesting, supportive, complicated relationships
• Caregiver:  in your family, or community  
• Friend: Everyone turns to YOU for support. Divorce changes those relationships. You feel alone! 

Do you know how to take back control of your life BEFORE those 'conflicts' decide the success of your Divorce Settlement and your ENTIRE future happiness in Life and Love? 

 Your 'PERSPECTIVES' Coach Grooms YOU for Your BEST responses: 

• in All interactions relating to your divorce negotiations, 
• for maintaining personal relationships, and building new emotionally rewarding relationships 
• with various appropriate response strategies in the form of verbal,  non-verbal, written and enquiring communictions with your Ex, so you retain control, present as in charge, confident, communicative, and willing to negotiate a reasonable settlement. 
• in how to work with your Identity Conflicts in advance of and during  all divorce inteactions and negotiations.
• debriefing following divorce or personal meetings
• finding the Origin Story of your behaviour patterns that make sense of current issues by relating back to old stories,
• re-writing the Origin Story with your newest successful outcomes  

What you discover will be life altering!  

New perspectives transform your future choices into successful outcomes. 

Double Life:   How long have you been living a double life?   

How do you deal with the identity confusion? 

• Damage Control:  How do you manage the damage your divorce is forcing onto your business, your reputation, and your public and personal relationships?   

• Stress: Can you separate YOUR divorce stress from your work and personal life stress?  How is that working for  YOU?

• It's Complicated:  Out of Control Divorce Identity becomes identity destroying, even dangerous, because until you learn to manage it, it bleeds into and destroys career and personal healing for your successful future. 

SOLUTIONS

Victim in Hiding:   Are you a 'vicitim in hiding', who is  being 'covertly victimized'  by your spouse/partner, their lawyers, and the legal system?   

IF You WANT CONTROL and ARE READY to Re-Design your STRONGEST, most JOYFUL IDENTITY...  

PERSPECTIVES DIVORCE IDENTITY HAS EVERYTHING YOU NEED!

On a scale of 1-5...  5 being most impacted, how are you managing through these 7 levels of emotional recovery as you negotiate divorce.  

Rate each emotional response.  Write your level of recovery from 1-5  beside each item.  If you have more 3-5's than 1-2's.  Maybe we should chat.  

• shock and denial
• pain and guilt
• anger and bargaining
• depression
• the upward tur
• reconstruction and working through
• acceptance and hope

IF YOU ARE STUCK ANYWHERE ON THIS LIST...  

You may need counselling, therapy, or the simplest starting place... Coaching! 

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REQUEST YOUR FREE NEXT STEPS DIVORCE ASSESSMENT BLUEPRINT ZOOM CONVERSATION 

TRUST IS KEY:  Your Perspecitve Coach remains your constant support and witness, validating your skills, and providing new strategies, game plans, and training to meet each challenge.  

Divorce is not a quick process! In most situations, it takes between 2-5 years for most divorces to be legally resolved.  It's never too late to begin coaching.  Even years after a divorce is done, clients suffering chronic victim mindsets, unable to move on, stuck and losing ground in their career...  our clients find success and a new life force.  

Imagine negotiating ALL alone, without the kind of support you REALLY need!

How many divorced women do you know who are living in bitterness, locked into distrust, hatred, resentment, fear, illness!  Your life can take 10 or more years to settle into a healthy identity and mindset!  

• Proven Support:  "Perspectives" offers more than 17 years of coaching support thorugh every kind of life event.  Your Coach isn't shocked, judgmental, guilting, gossipy, or threatening.   She does require accountability, and your determination to take back control of your future. 
• Consistency:   Your support coach knows your patterns, needs, the tools and all skills you may have forgotten.  AND is there whenever you need to talk. 
• BEST  Friends:  Can your Friends be uninvested, and unbiased, non-judgmental and truthful when you need them to be? 
• Vulnerabilty and Stability:  Your go-to personal coach, gives consistency, stability and a safe-place to be vulnerable when you need to space to regroup, when your spouse or their lawyer threatens.    
• Divorce Trauma Recovery:  Personalized Coaching shortens the transition from traumatized, and victimized to Victor mindset!  

Imagine:  Week by Week sessions, that give you everything you need to shed years of trauma triggering old beliefs!  Start fresh each week.  

  Imagine:  Learning to FILTER, BLOCK, RETURN without  CONFRONTATION, all negative, damaging, and controlling behaviours ffrom Others.  

Imagine:  Rebuilding  your life, so you  are emotionally strong, spiritually empowered, and have EVERY TOOL you need to stay that way.  

Become your own WARRIOR WOMAN.   Coaching 1:1 is the only option available BECAUSE you need privacy to unpack, defuse, rebuild  WHO you are.  Warrior Woman Divorce Identity Coaching is a minimu 1 year commitment to YOURSELF.    

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